I really understand how he feels about the pills....our house looks like a pharmacy, my purse rattles with pills. We have 2 grandchildren living with us who are on medication for ADHD and features of bipolar, I'm on 4 meds and then there are the piles and piles of Mike's drugs. I keep telling myself and Mike that this is only temporary....some of these pills will gradually go away....probably to be replaced by others but hopefully some will just go. I've also told H that just because he's sick doesn't give him the right to be an a$$. Sometimes a little tough love helps....I don't think he even understood that he was being a jerk. Good luck