Have you spoken to his doctor? I don't know how anyone going through this wouldn't be depressed. The worst should be over when the radiation ends. To my husband that was the worst part of the treatment. There will be many issues to address that's for sure but he should start to feel better soon. Just keep telling him how strong he is and that you're proud of him.

Sue

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.