Sometimes I think I need them too! Hopefully your husband will start feeling better mentally as he feels better physically. You have both been through hell and need some time to get past it. Unfortunately I have been self medicating with food and need to find another outlet.

Sue

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.