Jim - I can't believe I made the mistake I did above in my post shocked - and too late to edit but when I said I was only married for 26 years - it was actually only 20 years! I guess it just seemed longer. smirk And the insurance was not the big bucks kind but the small amount extra I got in my SS check each month after he died. But every little bit helps.

Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)