laugh Jim, you really made me laugh, too! I was only married 26 years and got divorced but I outlived my ex and got his insurance!! I don't mean to sound insensitive, because when he died, I did feel badly. He had quit drinking and gotten to be a pretty nice guy. His #2 wife (or..widow) is nice, too.

Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)