Thank you guy! It's just a really rough time right now. As you said, Teri & I know this is a LONG term process, but my husband is a "fix it" type person & I think he's frustrated because he can't. Yes, I've got him to agree to go to my next therapy appt with me & hopefully we can get some clarity. And if it doesnt' help I'll definitely try Pete's mule trick!! In the meantime I took Teri to the med onc today & she's going to start swallow therapy (has a barium swallow eval next week). So we start a whole new chapter.
Thank you again my friends, I don't know what I'd do without you!