Bonnie - You might bring all of this up the next time your daughter goes to her doctor. I had the same problem with my husband and finally when we went to the doctor she pushed the right button and he broke down in front of her. She explained that it had nothing to do with him as a man it was what they have done to him with the chemicals, treatment, etc. He wasn't eating and this was 8 wks post treatment. Since going on anti-depressants, he is eating and he is back to his old self. As you can see from the posts here, almost everyone has been down this road. Please see that she gets some help. Take care and God Bless you all.
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Caregiver-husband. Stage IV SCC-left tonsil-3 lymph nodes - IMRT X35 - Cisplatin/Tarceva X35- 8/06-Neck dissection 11/06 - 14 lymph nodes.


MARTY-Caregiver to husband (non-smoker/non-drinker)Dx 04/06 SCC Stage IV left tonsil-3 lymph nodes,HPV+,Tx 35xIMRT,35xcisplatin/tarceva,neck dissection 11/06, beginning HPV vaccine JHopkins 04/07.