Thanks all for the posts. I've printed all of them & given to Teri. Her comment was "Wow, I didn't know this was so "normal"!" She appreciative of all your comments & advise.
And to add to the problem, it's finally dawned on me that I'M depressed. I just can't get the tears to stop flowing! I'm calling the Cancer Center tomorrow to get an appointment with a counselor for ME. Hopefully Teri will follow suit shortly.
Bonnie
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CG 41-yo daughter, stg 3 SCC lateral tongue, partial glossectomy, mod neck dissection, 1 pos node, IMRT x 30 complete 12/22