Bonnie - It is very difficult being a caretaker with a grown child especially if she is not taking in enough nourishment to give her enough energy to do more than just the very basic things. My son (single father) has been taking meds for depression for about two years, (Welbutrin and Zoloft) and I was really worried, right after treatment ended (12/19). He had stopped his weekly counseling sessions with two different therapists and it was only after I tried several different approaches that he decided to go back to the therapy i.e.