Liz, you are as much entitled to "cancer fatigue" as Robin is! It is pretty obvious that being away from your family has also put an additional amount of stress on you. Hope you can work it out to take Robin to Yorkshire with you for a while- if that doesn't work, try to go by yourself for some short visits. When you feel comfortable that he can manage - or take care of himself adequately- then you can reassess the situation. It does neither of you much good to be in a state of turmoil. You need to do some good things for yourself. Amy in the Ozarks