Hi, Barbara, there is not much to add to the good advice above, except, as a fellow caregiver, I want to encourage you to also take the best possible care of yourself. You will get weary and quite likely worn down during the next few months, so find a way to rest yourself and you need to eat wel also. Amy


CGtoJohn:SCC Flr of Mouth.Dx 3\05. Surg.4\05.T3NOMO.IMRTx30. Recur Dx 1\06.Surg 2\06. Chemo: 4 Cycles of Carbo\Taxol:on Erbitux for 7 mo. Lost our battle 2-23-07- But not the will to fight this disease

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