Peace,

If you are at a major cancer hospital with experienced head and neck doctors, you have to trust them to do what's needed. If you have any doubts about what's next, go to a different hospital for a second opinion.

I found that once I had a team that I felt confident about, I could rest and let them do their work. As Andrea said, it's not easy but it's possible. There are plenty of us here who have been through it and know that it's worth the effort to push ahead. Your medical team should have someone who can talk with you about your anxiety and help you to be ready for your treatment.

Cathy