Gary, after that minister's remark I wound up talking to the pastor at my mom's church who at the time was also undergoing cancer treatment, and he had been told the same thing by other pastors in the community. Lets just say it was a wrong move on their part.

Lets also just also say I no longer deal with the orgainization that came up with the first guy.

Bob

SCC Tongue, stage IV diagnosed Sept, 2002, 1st radical neck dissection left side in Sept, followed by RAD/Chemo. Discovered spread to right side nodes March 2003, second radical neck dissection April, followed by more RAD/Chemo.