Audrey,
When my mom got her diagnosis I was 4 months pregnant with my daughter (my first child, her first grandchild) my entire family so wanted to protect me that they made my husband tell me. The best thing I ever did was log onto this website. It helped me get her through a lot of really tough times. She really didn't want to read to much about it so I do the research for her. She asks me questions and I post for answers to share with her. Everybody here is so wonderful and helpful. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Take Care,
Dani