Dear Audrey, Now is when the tough get going! If you are not up to it, get someone else to research the diagnosis on this site or google it. Once you begin to have some knowledge of the disease and the approaches to treating it, you can begin to compile a list of good questions to ask the Mass General folks. Remember sometimes good questions are "what is the meaning of this term?", "how many of this type of cancer have you treated?" "List the choices of treatment if there are choices" Remember, you can get almost all of the info you need about chemo and radiation here- so my recommendation is that youall learn what you can about the Adenocarcinoma before you go. Hope your husband can get his act together because you ae going to need him to be strong [tell him we have all said this] Amy