I am glad to hear this from all of you caregivers. This last surgery for neck dissection which happend quickly from the day we heard until the day we were in the emergency room really tore up my husband. I made him see a therapyst and he said he couldn't relate. I said to him do you think they can relate to you when you are all of the place try again. He did it helped and now he has an appointment to get some meds. I told him don't be afraid of them. They are there to support you when nothing else is working. I told him I have been on them for years and if hadn't been I don't know if would have made it through the first cancer. So yes get help. I hope you all get a good nights sleep and vent as long as you want, I am a good listner.
Robijn