Oh hell no Karen I am NOT coming to his defense but...today I was reading about Oxycodone and affects it has and yes his alchohol use is NOT helping him at all. BUT I can not tell him this. All he does is get mad at me. So once again I am going to use these postings if you all don't mind and print them out and let you all do the talking for me to show him that I am NOT picking on him or nagging. He has a problem...I want to call the Dr but everytime I do he finds out because they put it on his damn chart! He needs to be taken off this Oxy crap and he really does need to go to rehab! How do I do this? I want him away from drugs and only controlled for him by a nursing staff or dr and away from his damn beer! Yesterday I came home and he had an enevelope with paperwork on it for his nutrition intake and how much he "should" be taking daily to keep a decent weight and to help with his darn healing. Also a phone message from a nurse and his mother asking if he called the nurse, she was to come and see him, I went downstairs and he was doing a feeding and I asked him what is going on and did he see this home nurse today and what happened. He said no. He said he called her back and said "I don't know who you are but leave me alone" I don't know if this really happened cuz he kinda laughed but was serious. I just don't know what to believe with him so I went back upstairs to feed my dogs and he came up and went to bed @ 530PM. I breathed a sigh of relief that I wasn't going to have to bother with him but I was wrong, he woke up later bout 830pm or so came out to make a cup of coffee, got the water microwaved, stood by the cupboard and just stood there, I looked at him and said weren't you making a cup of coffee and he said oh ya like he forgot what he was doing. Maybe he was still asleep or was it the drugs and beer? I don't talk to him much anymore, because I won't when he is like this, no point, he don't know or remember what I'm talking about anyway so why bother and I've told him that. So I went to bed @ 930pm and he was downstairs watching TV. He was in and out of bed during the night cuz of course he can't sleep. But he didn't yell at me or keep me up thank God cuz I do have to work.
Thanks all for the words of wisdom. I know I deserve better and this is NOT my Ron anymore. This is "Rotton Ron" from his past.
