Hi Wendy

I can't imagine you screaming - your posts are always so upbeat and positive. Glad to hear you are human! I am replying because you said one thing that I love and I think it is the answer to everyone who comes at you with any negativity about the future.

[quote] Steve has earnt the right to do anything he wants to do and he has earnt the right to live his life in the way that makes him the happiest. And so have I[/quote]

I wish I was able to stay as calm as you do. I don't do "nice" anymore, I just tell the well meaning person that their comment/advice is not useful (when I am in good mood) or uninformed (when I am casting about to annihilate someone else's day).

Luckily for the members of the human race who stray into my territory, my bad days are becoming less and less so there are not as many maimed bodies piled up around the front door as there used to be.