he didnt offer any alternatives either. he just basically said youre fucked and youre gonna die. we couldnt even cry. i think his resident didnt even fully agree with him.


my mom, age 59.

12/08 surgery & 33x rad
4/09 recurrence
5/09 surgery & 35x rad
12/09 recurrence
1/10 surgery. peg tube, trach, fibula free flap
6/10 recurrence. double chemo treatments.
8/10/10 finally at peace in heaven