OP Senior Member (100+ posts) Joined: Jun 2010 Posts: 111 | Wendy, how old are your children? Im no expert really..Im just dealing as its handed to us the best that I can. You have to talk with them though. They probably want to but are unsure of where to start. Its like the big elephant in the room - someone has to speak up about it. It will make you feel better to talk with them. Theyre probably just as scared as you are.
my mom, age 59.
12/08 surgery & 33x rad 4/09 recurrence 5/09 surgery & 35x rad 12/09 recurrence 1/10 surgery. peg tube, trach, fibula free flap 6/10 recurrence. double chemo treatments. 8/10/10 finally at peace in heaven |