My youngest is 14, the other 2 are 27 and 28, but it goes beyond my kids, my husband, my brothers, friends, parents. I guess I would like to be able to talk to them, but I am afraid I am being over dramatic. Or like my kids it might make the to scared to think about it. I just don't know I guess. I share a story that I read here by amyk it ws very sad,with my hubby and he just clams up and shakes his head. So my guess is it is to scary for him to think about. But it just makes me feel more alone, you know what I mean?