Tom,

My fiancee took such good care of me during my treatment. I did not have the tx your wife is having and I believe hers will be harder. However, this made our relationship even stronger. Know that she will need you to be strong for her.

And I agree with everyone else. Every person is different and reacts differently to treatment. You can help her by being a positive force in her life.

Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)