the docs base everything on stats .. i for one never listened to them, the stats in the beginning were very nice .. but once the cancer came around the second time, the stats were junk .. and as the treatments went on the stats kept getting worse ...

i didnt let it get to me,, but i think about those stats quite a bit.... i would ignore it all and keep supporting ur wife with all u got

the world brought me to my knees...
Update: Feb 10/08: Mom passed away on Jan 31,08 - infection (unknown) in her lungs with her weakened immune system resulted in cardiac arrest - T2NO SCC of tongue surgery 6/30/06, SCC left neck and lungs detected Sept 07, 7 weeks rad/3 rounds chemo had no effect.