Tom-Worry is a really consuming emotion. Believe me I know. With all of it that I've done-things are still what they are going to be regardless of how much I'm distracted by it. It's almost 1 year since my husband's surgery and it is getting a little easier to live in the moment. Worry can help you in some ways too. If you suspect something is not right with how your wife is feeling, don't hesitate to call her doctor. Worry can also help you realize what's really important. The stupid little problems in life seem so much more insignificant. Good luck to both of you during treatment and keep posting-I've gotten my best info here.

Sue