Hey MommaP.
You do not have a "signature" so I do not know anything about what treatments your husband went through. So I, and others are limited to an uninformed "guess" of his reasons. That said, I would say he was protecting "Daddys Little Girl" from seeing him like ??????. Another observation is that YOU were the only one allowed to see him. This was not directed at your daughter, as HE DID NOT WANT ANY FAMILY TO SEE HIM. He seems MORE worried about others than himself. To me, that shows he is a warm and caring person. I hate it when people come to see you in the hospital and they are like, OH MY GOD!!! GRANTED THIS IS A DEADLY DISEASE, BUT THE MACHINES, DRAINS AND TUBES MAKE A PATIENT LOOK LIKE A REAL HORROR SHOW. I think he is trying to spare everyone a from a traumatical experiance. Also, driving 6 hours just makes you think of all the negatives. It is not good to drive in an "upset" condition. Also. you did not mention anything about a telephone. Like the others have said. Let it go. I am thinking of doing the same thing. NO VISITORS. But I would love to "HEAR" from you! Sincerely, Petey