She is 31 years old now and no I really don't think she ever grieved for her daddy and its been all these years. I don't remember her even crying. Just hiding silently in her room.

I feel sorry for her and I feel sorry for the whole situation. She will not even talk to Cheri and John, my other two kids. The only person she talks to is mu sister who doesn't have a clue what to say to her.

I guess I can't force her into anything but I am sad for her that she can't open up to her feelings. She does need therapy but she would never dream of getting it. Her husband has said so many times as in the lst few years she even stopped driving and rarely comes outside but for the times he is with her.

I am sorry...for both of us as she is such a delight in my life and I miss her so much. Should I send her a card? What should I say?

Love,
Barb~