Hi Delly , sorry to hear about your dad , it's very hard to watch somebody close to you struggling . I'm surprised and annoyed for you about the lack of support you have both received . This wasn't the case for me , I feel that I had a lot of support and input from the specialist nurses , Macmillan nurses and district nurses , but Mike wax straight on that phone advocating for me when I wasn't well and demanding answers to our questions .
I can't really help with the swallowing questions as I don't know , but others I see have and will continue to help and advise you.
Your a good daughter I'm glad your dad has your love and support .
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