Thankyou Maria I just want my dad to be ok x I no he's going to get depressed and I'm ready I just want to try help him back out of it x it's hard with my dad because he never had no hobbies or social life he just went to work came home drank brews ha and went back next day he really misses work and he wants to go back he's given himself a year ! I really really pray he gets enough speech to go back to taxi driving and I really hope he can drink a brew again :(( only time will tell xx it is very hard you think every second of the day about it and how you can make the healing time easier but it's so hard I asked if he wanted to go for a drive today but he doesn't so I can't force him just hope he keeps feeding himself and trying to help himself xx there doesn't seem to be much help yet I:/ in going to contact people Monday and see what I can do xxx