I liked the part of about the T-shirt, and am glad to hear that he is doing so well early on in the game. While it does get worse, it is doable. I can hardly believe the wealth of good information that you have gotten here as I read through all these posts. A couple of years ago, I was putting most of them up myself, and now finally the torch has passed to a LARGE community of generous survivors who offer their experiences. On the note of T-shirts, take a look in the OCF products store for one that may fit his personality to a T, (no pun intended) and may brighten up one of his down days as a surprise. Keep fighting the good fight...