Thanks for your replies - I suspect that the lump under the chin is due to lymphodema as per your comments Paul but I will keep a close eye on it over the next few weeks.
Karen: We are also in Melbourne and have our appoint scheduled at the Royal Melbourne Hospital this month and will definitely reschedule if we see any changes.
As for the hair loss - glad to know Jen is not the only one and I agree with you Paul that the shoulder & neck pain is due to the neck dissection & carrying around a pretty big boy around!
Again - wonderful to hear your responses and it does put my mind at ease knowing that these symptoms are pretty common post-tx.
Jay
6/8/12: Wife 33y/o with no risk dx with Stage IVa SCC L of Tongue(T4aN2bM0) 3/9/12: Induced birth @ 36 weeks - Baby Hunter! 11/9/12: OP - 3/4 Partial Gloss, Radical ND & Tongue Rec. 24/10/12: 33xRad + 7xChemo 7/12/12: Tx complete 21/3/13 & 21/6/13: NED 24/7/13: SCC in Lungs - OP: Lobectomy (VATS) 29/1/14 passed away