[quote=HeatherC]It was moderately differentiated. His surgeon offered us an MDA referral but we decided that it would be easier to treat it here, especially if he needed radiation. So, here we are.

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This is what we all responded to regarding the treatment plan. As I said in my post, we have/had no way of knowing if it was an informed decision. I think even though Heather responded that she had investigated other things, we still have no way to know...therefore our concern.
I do remember, early in my days here, my reaction when someone on these boards questioned our decision to go with Cisplatin even though my hubby had a hearing problem. I felt second guessed and reacted strongly. I know now that it was because veteran posters had seen way more than I had and wanted to help. I hope that you come back Heather and continue to glean information and support here that will be invaluable in your husband's recovery.
Deb