Heather,
The venue of your husband's cancer treatment is of course a decision that he makes, but given the T3 stage and the fact that it is aggressive I am surprised that they did not throw in chemo as well. It makes it a somewhat harsher treatment to be sure, but it statistically is supposed to give better results. You might consider asking about this, assuming you have not already discussed it.
Best,
Anne


SCC tongue 9/2010, excised w/clear margins:8 X 4 mm, 1 mm deep
Neck Met, 10/2010, 1 cm lymph node; 12/21/'10: Neck Diss 30 nodes, 29 clear, micro ECE node, part tongue gloss, no residual scc
IMRT & 6 cisplatin 1/20/11-2/28/11 at MDA
GIST tumor sarcoma, removed 9/2011, no chemo needed
Clear on both counts as of Fall, 2021