Welcome to OCF, Heather! So sorry you have to go thru all of this with your husband. A cargeivers job is not an easy one. Its full of stress while you are crying on the inside but smiling on the outside and on top of that trying to maintain a somewhat normal life for your family. No wonder you are angry! Its ok, we understand exactly where you are coming from.

This site will help you get thru everything. Its full of current, correct medical info and wonderful moral support.

Best wishes!!


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile