I have been reading a lot on these boards and follow certain posters that are good about posting details of their treatments... Well some of these posts go back many years and the posters seem to have had successful outcomes, but haven't been around.. I am DYING for updates! I know this is normal that once things are good again, many don't have a need to come back.. but would it be OK if I just sent a private note to the posters to ask for an update on their lives??