Wendy and Emily I am hearing you. As a carer I can relate to you Emily but with watching Steve and what he is going through I can also understand what you mean Wendy. Don't you just get so sick of the entire thing. But what's the alternate? Give up. NO WAY. We'll all get there guys.

Yep I'm sick of it all and I hate cancer with a passion for all it's taken from us. But my boy is here with me everyday and when I have days where I am so over it I just have to think of him and how happy I am that he's still here with me.

Take care and keep fighting no matter how hard it gets some days. I have people say to me "I don't know how you two keep going". What choice do we have? We have to.

Wendy


Wife to Steve 43. DX 5 May 09. T4N2MO SCC tongue, floor of mouth, lymph nodes & jaw bone
No surgery
Teeth removed 06/07/2009
radiation 13/07/2009 x 7wks
chemo 15/07/2009 x 3 Cisplatin
last TX 28/08/2009
25/11/2009 PET-lymph node activity.
08/01/2010 CT Scan-ALL CLEAR
03/03/2010-Peg removed
01/2013 left side of Jaw removed and replaced with pectoral flap.
23/12/2020 scan show lesion in tongue
01/2021 SCC stage 3 base of tongue diagnosed
01/03/2021 chemotherapy started.