"OCF Down Under" Platinum Member (300+ posts) Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 453 | Wendy and Emily I am hearing you. As a carer I can relate to you Emily but with watching Steve and what he is going through I can also understand what you mean Wendy. Don't you just get so sick of the entire thing. But what's the alternate? Give up. NO WAY. We'll all get there guys.
Yep I'm sick of it all and I hate cancer with a passion for all it's taken from us. But my boy is here with me everyday and when I have days where I am so over it I just have to think of him and how happy I am that he's still here with me.
Take care and keep fighting no matter how hard it gets some days. I have people say to me "I don't know how you two keep going". What choice do we have? We have to.
Wendy
Wife to Steve 43. DX 5 May 09. T4N2MO SCC tongue, floor of mouth, lymph nodes & jaw bone No surgery Teeth removed 06/07/2009 radiation 13/07/2009 x 7wks chemo 15/07/2009 x 3 Cisplatin last TX 28/08/2009 25/11/2009 PET-lymph node activity. 08/01/2010 CT Scan-ALL CLEAR 03/03/2010-Peg removed 01/2013 left side of Jaw removed and replaced with pectoral flap. 23/12/2020 scan show lesion in tongue 01/2021 SCC stage 3 base of tongue diagnosed 01/03/2021 chemotherapy started.
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