Hi Mandi
I only know you need help, but don't know how best to help you. When my husband took up with alcohol big time like you I tried to reason with him but it didn't work, and in the end I took an overdose of sleeping pills, everything just became to much for me, but thank god he stopped drinking and I now have my husband back and I must admit it's good. I don't think you can do this by yourself, and give support to everyone with out paying the price. In the States do the AA have a family support group? as they do here in England, I think you need some outside help, where the advice can be logical not emotional. It can all come good, although 3 months ago I wouldn't have believed it, but it's a hard road and I wish I could help more. Don't forget we are all here for you. god bless
Love and Hugs Helen