I agree with all of the above ..and just ask him as I said before to make an INFORMED decison ..that is all you are asking him to do ..I mean dosent he want to know what his Choices are?

Sharlee
35 year old Female Non smoker, very occasional alcohol ..Scc T1N0M0,partial glossectomy and left neck disection ,2/9/07 No rad deemed ness. 4/16 tonsillectomy ..Trimengenial Neuralga due to surgery