Well quite a quandry.

I agree with Jerry, we don't have enough detail to be at all reliable in our advice and opinion is only that.

As for the money, what is he going to do with it if he has no treatment? This route will most certainly lead to a possibly lengthey time in palliative care which, often times, exceeds the treatment cost by quite a large margin. Spend it now or spend it later.

Selfishness, should not be misinterpreted for concern, love and caring. Get the facts and pass them along to your father don't be pushy be the loving son that brought you here to look for help. You would make any father proud!

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,

Mike