Please make sure you know all the facts before you try to pressure him into anything. My husband has stage 4 cancer of the tongue and decided to go with hospice due to other heath problems and the chance that he couldn't make it though the surgury. No it hasn't been pleasent for him but from what I have read here it hasn't been as bad as the treatment. I have a really hard time with the idea that doing nothing for terminal cancer is worse than going though radiation and chemo when you know it will do nothing but prolng it.
Just talk to him and get all the facts
Julie