No one can tell you that . If you could just sit and talk to your dad and ask him why he dosent want know whatthe drs are suggesting , and then he can make an informed decison.

I am a Pro choice person all the way ....People chose their own paths in life and they answet to themselves in the end. BUE I believe in Making those choices whatever the issue may be ..it should be an educated one,,you should have all rhe facts ..both sides !!!!

So if he choses NO treatment....maybe he should 1st know what the treatment is. and maybe if you explain that to him. and explain how much it would mean to you if he would atleast do that much.

WE all know how scary it is ..believe me we do and I think at one point or another we probably all even did the we dont wanna know thing. But If you could calmy sit him down and just talk to him and listen to what he has to say and them let him know you feelings and ask him ( not TELL him ) to go hear what the treatment plan would be and what the outcome of that would be . Then he can make his decision . That would be fair to himself and his children.


shar