And if he still refuses to bow to pressure/common-sense/offers of help-------just tell him you love him anyway---and keep doing that whichever path he chooses!

Brenda

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!