Dear Desiree'
Maybe things get intense here, but it's only out of a feeling of helplessness. Hindsight is 20\20 in all cases. I'm there with you hon. I'm not the one fighting cancer, my husband is, but we all want the best treatment for you there is. Please take a deep breath....you have so much hope left. Take the doctor's diagnosis, and if not happy with it, look elsewhere. If prayers are on our side this time, you will have an easy time and many years with your babies.
Love to you both,
Mandi

Husband diagnosed with stage III tonsil and floor of mouth cancer in August 2002. Three rounds of chemo/42 RAD treatments. Upper right lung lobectomy in March 2003. (Benign)