Sounds like you're in the right network of specialists, but a second opinion is still worthwhile. "Super-aggressive" is along the same lines as surgery ... once it's done, you can't take it back. I had some doctors who went the super-aggressive route ... not that the treatments themselves were all that out of the ordinary, but I think they were above and beyond what my stage warranted, and I've had to deal with the fallout from that. They got twitchy because I had a very rapid recurrence, even though it was still very mild. I'd done second opinions the first go-round, so I didn't worry so much the second time ... which was not a good plan. In hindsight, just knowing I'd had the second opinions would do me a lot better now.

That said, it may still be just exactly the treatment you need, and the second opinion reinforces that ... which is GREAT to hold on to during the struggling times.