This is all so very stressful and without the benefit of knowing each other personally or being able to hear inflection in our words, it is easy to have misunderstandings.
Paul you are a tremendous help and it is obvious Shawn wants you to continue to offer help. I hope you will reconsider.
Kathy

Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14