Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Ive also been thinking of you, Bette. Was hoping you were able to find some peace of mind thru this tragedy. I just cant imagine how hard it must be for you.
One of my close friends lost her husband very unexpectedly. She was devastated. It took her a very long time even with seeing a grief counselor to come to terms with losing her husband. Its not something that has a timetable. It will take lots of time to adjust to such a traumatic major life event.
You have many friends here so please dont be a stranger. We all care.
(((HUGS)))
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive |