Bette, I am shocked to read this. My heart is crying for you. I had noticed that you had not posted for a while.
Bette, you were a fantastic caregiver and advocate for Reggie. You fought strongly for his recovery and health.
Reggie is at peace now and I sincerely hope that you find your own peace and solace.
Thinking of you, Reggie and your family .
Take care Bette,
Tammy

Caregiver/advocate to Husband Kris age 59@ diagnosis
DX Dec '10 SCC BOT T4aN2bM0 HPV+ve.Cisplatin x3 35 IMRT.
PET 6/11 clear.
R) level 2-4 neck dissection 8/1/11 to remove residual node - necrotic with NED
Feb '12 Ca back.. 3/8/12 total glossectomy/laryngectomy/bilat neck dissection/partial pharyngectomy etc. clear margins. All nodes negative for disease. PEG in.
March 2017 - 5 years disease free. Woohoo!