We are right behind you! I knew you would get your battle face on! Great job!! It will be a battle and you will feel like crap, then before you know it, you're done!! Honestly. Just focus on the days one at a time and know this is your job now.
Apply for ss disability as soon as you can. You may never need it, but if you are approved and by some chance are home more than 6 months, you will have it to fall back on. Your social worker at your cc might be able to help with the logistics of it all.I think you said you had some disability? With family and friends helping you guys will make it through financially too. God will rain blessings down...seems he already is!
Blessings to you and your family,
Kathy

Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14