I'm just a normaly "quite" person to begin with. My wife could talk the ears off an elephant. My reluctance to comunicate with her is the result of experience. She tends to over analyse the smallest of details. On here I can turn the computer off if I don't like the way the conversations going. At home I'm stuck with it.....lol.

I feel ya Eric on the legality of comfort in a bad situation such as cancer treatment. For now though I can't risk my income. My wife got terminated a week before the baby was born from a company she had been with for 12 years. She can't draw unemployment until the doc's release her and from what I am hearing on here, I should prepare for at least 6wks of leave from my work. I have short term disability but its only 60% of my regular pay. We are soon to be facing serious financial difficuties. The least of my concerns right now but a real concern non the less.