Thank you all, and Wendy I do remember from your posts all you have been thru...this stuff is just crazy & no matter what you learn about OC..seems more times than not...there is no rhyme or reason for it. Cannot understand how HPV hit my mom..makes no sense at all. She says she has no pain...but her mouth, lips, sinus's...her face...is awful to see...she doesn't know her looks because she's lost her eyesight to macular degeneration & the Erbitux. It's gone wild in her mouth...can barely sip water, but doing the tube feedings. Asking God to be gentle & to please hurry. Perhaps if she had not been so old treatments may have gone better, who knows. God bless & keep each one of you.