Hello - you're married to this man even if he doesn't talk to you go see him and make him listen. Ultimately you've done all you can - I do understwnd it may be the drugs or him trying to deal with the after effects, and reality, but what he's doing is still not right. Do not abandon him, but you have children to worry about.. Tell him as much, tell him you're there for him, then back off and focus on you. Spend time at home doing what you want and with friends and family. You can't make him do what you want - so let him be. Eventually he may find his way back, but a some point you have to leave it up to him.hugs